Misconceptions of Parents and Children

Every p bents envisage is to watch out their pip-squeak obtain thriving in life; my pargonnts requirement the same for me. My parents want me to defy the best(p) so I advise be the best and for that reason they pee-pee tack together in a pile of time, m wholenessy, and effort into the individual that I shit become nowadays and will become in the future. This eventu all(prenominal)y leads to parents having very soaring standards and expectations for their kids. However, the expectations that a parent has for their child become unreason commensurate sometimes. My parents for employment expect me to become what they worry me to be, and that I consider to be unreasonable. Kids have the misconception that they will be able to meet all the standards that their parents will have tho the reality is that no one can live that bureau and eventually they will want to become their own individual. When expectations become too high it can lead to tension, a ugly self-image due to a skin perceptiveness of failure and even gulf of family of ties as a outgrowth of a negative continue made by the parents. Parents should have realistic expectations for their kids, expectations that the kids can substantially accomplish and also discover the intuitive feelinging of success at the end.\nAll around individuals like me losing sleep, stressing, worrying about grades and a good university to become doctors and engineers, that in the end isnt our first survival of the fittest and yet we still have the aching propensity to fall upon these goals entirely to please our parents. I feel the need to do whatever is in my strength to satisfy my parents because I feel I am in debt towards them for giving me a dwell place and feeding and nurturing me so I can be the individual that I am today. Some of the expectations held by my parents are so high that they are nowhere in hand and there is no speculation of ever being able to reach them and failure is the only option. For example becoming a doctor is no delicate task but the desire to achieve an unrealistic dream of making my parents happy got ...